Monday, 30 March 2015

Paul Elam, Dean Esmay, Suz McCarley, and AVFM are Lying to You.

This is a follow-up video to the previous article I wrote here.


I Will Never Teach my Son Not to Rape - An Open Letter to Feminists

Dear feminists.

You say that we need to teach boys not to rape - that boys need to be told this crucial message so they do not grow up and rape someone.

Your message implies that all boys are somehow born as sexual predators who need to be civilized - that all boys require corrective measures or they will grow up to be criminals.

You want me to teach my son not to rape. You want me to give him a message that would imply that he is a bad person just for being born male - that he is somehow inherently bad.

We, as a society, know that rape is bad. We know that to commit rape is a horrible criminal act with many dire consequences. We are taught those things regardless of our gender, in the same way that we are taught that murder is bad, yet you do not demand that I teach my son not to murder. Why is that feminists?

Did you, feminists, teach your fathers, brothers, or sons not to rape? If you didn't teach them not to rape are they now out there raping women? Are they still the uncivilized and potentially dangerous beasts you paint them to be because you never told them rape was bad?

Why do you want my son to be vilified and feel ashamed for being male? Why are you willing to place the burden of guilt on an innocent person? Why do you condemn him without him ever having done anything to warrant such condemnation?

My job as a mother is to raise my son to have a healthy self-esteem, strong moral compass, real compassion for others, and to make sure he always feels safe and loved. Telling him not to rape would make me a bad mother and a failure at my job. Why do you want me to be a bad mother feminists? Why do you want me to take those important things away from my son? Why do you want me to raise my son in an environment where he is given the message that his mother does not trust him, or that I think he is inherently a bad person?

Sorry feminists, but I will not send the message to my son that he was born a bad person, flawed, or a potential criminal just because you think men are born as dangerous beings that need to be somehow civilized. I will not place blame, condemnation, or vilify my son when he has never done anything to warrant that type of treatment.

He does not deserve your scorn, or for you to pass any judgement on him based only on his being male. My son will not be made to feel responsible for a crime he did not commit, and most likely never will.

My son deserves much better than what you are offering him, feminists. I love and respect my son, and I will never treat him with the scorn and condemnation you are asking me to treat him with. How can you ask a mother to betray their son like that? Have you no shame?

Sorry feminists, but my son deserves so much better than what you have to offer him. He deserves a mother who will never teach him that he is, in any way, a monster just because he is a boy.

I will never teach my son not to rape.

Written by Kristina Hansen
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Wednesday, 25 March 2015

Oh The Dramz!! Let's end this.

I swear it's like a constant train wreck between AVFM, MGTOW, JtO, Dianna Davison, and all the MRA's - Or maybe it's more like a clown car? Who the hell knows.

The latest seems to be about Karen Straughan and Dianna Davison (DD), DDs boobs, and KAren wanting to fuck DD. And then something about how that all led to Karen supposedly being blackmailed by JtO over DDs naked tits. Seriously I just don't really care about the details, but what I do find both hilarious and sad is that Paul Elam, Bar Bar, Dean Esmay, Karen Straughan, and other idiots in the comments section of DDs latest video think that dredging up ancient bullshit about me is a good deflection. Oh why couldn't they just leave it alone? But alas, they keep insisting they are right and that they somehow had proof I stole AVFM funds. Well, let's clear this all up once and for all shall we?

First, I raised money for the Earl Silverman Center myself. Paul decided to promote my project all on his own. I never asked him to do it - he did that all on his own. At the end of the donation drive I had raised a little over $5K and started working on the beginning stages of setting up the ESC. It was going well until I pissed off the MGTOWs with a video that I made, on my own, saying some MGTOWs were misogynistic assholes - notice the word 'some'. But apparently MGTOWs are hard of hearing and heard 'all'. Everyone got their panties in a twist and Paul told me to either retract my statements about MGTOW or GTFO. I told him no, that I would not step down from my position regarding MGTOW, so he 'fired' me. After that I was immediately labeled a feminist, anti-male, gynocentric bitch. I was also accused of theft for the money I raised for the ESC. This was AVFMs way of harpooning the project and smearing me out of spite. If they couldn't be attached to the activism I was doing, then they had to destroy it.

See Paul only is in this game for money and notoriety. If he can't profit from someone, then he tosses them. We all know this is true because he has publicly said exactly that in a video he did. The proof of what he said is out there for all to see. And now I shall put out the proof that I never stole anything, that Dean Esmay, who poses as a champion of truth and honesty, knowingly filed a false claim with Paypal and his Credit Card company in attempt to get his ESC donation back (which was indeed found to be a false claim on his part by the CC company and Paypal), and show that the funds were finally donated to CAFE, since the ESC ended up being dead inn the water, thanks to AVFM.

So lets begin with the bank account evidence everyone was screaming for. I did not feel that this was ever anyone's business, except for those directly involved with the ESC. But since AVFM and the haters will not leave this shit alone, even 2 years after the fact, I feel it is high time to put this out there for all to see.

The Misc Paypal deposits are the donation deposit transfers from Paypal to the ESC account. The money was always in that account. The 2 transfers were for ESC expenses - $100 for the filing of all the paperwork to register the ESC, and $1000 for gas, office supplies, and other misc fees. That was all of the donation money ever used for anything related to the ESC.

After the ESC was harpooned by AVFM, we were trying to decide what to do with the donation money. We finally decided to donate it to CAFE. Here are the conversations between myself and Murray Pearson, who was in charge of the funds at that time.

On 10/23/13 we discussed giving the donations to CAFE and agreed it would be the best thing to do:

The following is the comment that Murray Pearson left on the CAFE donation site after donating $5000 to them:


 On 26/10/13 we discussed how Justin Trottier from CAFE congratulated us for the large donation:


On 28/10/13 Murray Pearson said that Justin Trottier wanted us to soft-pedal the donation. This was when I found out that Murray Pearson had donated it all in his name, and not in the ESC's name. 

After this conversation there was confusion on my part as to why Murray had donated the money in his name and not the ESC. He said it was because CAFE did not want any drama that was related to AVFM and the ESC brouhaha. This made sense to me, but regardless of the name it was donated in, the proof is here that it was indeed donated to CAFE and we did not 'abscond' with any money from the ESC donations, as AVFM would like everyone to believe.

And let's remember, AVFM and all the bullshitters there even admitted they never had any proof of me, or anyone else involved with the ESC, taking any money:

Well Suz, you are right that no laws were broken. No money was ever stolen, and now you have the proof.

"At least, that's how we feel." Well, your feelz were wrong Dean. Thanks for another admission of there being no proof, only da feelz.

 "In fact we have no knowledge of Kristina being guilty of anything..." Ah, thank you again for admitting you made all these accusations up. Pulled all this bullshit out of your ass did you? Hmmm...

"Joel is demanding to see our evidence. Of course we have none..." And again, the admission they never had any evidence of anything.

But I do however have evidence of one person at AVFM being a bald faced liar. Someone who tried to commit a real case of fraud and was caught in the act by his own credit card company and Paypal - Yes, Dean Esmay, I am talking about you:

He claimed that the donation to the ESC was an 'Unauthorized Transaction', which means he claimed he had no knowledge of that charge being made to his credit card. This was blatantly a false claim on his part, and an attempt at claiming a fraud was committed with his CC company and Paypal when he knew full well that there had actually been no fraud committed - in the process of doing this false claim he was the one committing the fraud by lying to the CC company and Paypal.

So I sent Paypal all the evidence I had that Dean had donated the money willingly, and with his knowledge. A few weeks later, after the CC company and Paypal had investigated, I got the following reply (The full readable text of it is below):

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So there you have it folks. Proof nothing was stolen from the ESC donations. Proof that AVFM never had any evidence of any wrongdoing on my part, and evidence that, if anything, the one who attempted to commit any fraud of any kind was indeed Dean Esmay.

The moral of the story? Paul Elam, Dean Esmay, Suz, Karen Straughan, and all the other idiots that believed this bullshit story are in the habit of blaming others and deflecting their own shortcomings onto others for their own sick amusement. They assumed I was a thief because they are themselves thieves. The proof is all over AVFM that Paul Elam keeps all the AVFM money for his own personal needs. He had admitted he uses people and, recently, has publicly said he will not do anything to help men in any real way. All that money AVFM gets is used to keep Paul in his cushy condo that he purchased in 2012, ironically only a few days before one of his large fundraisers.

The fundraiser was on the 23rd of September, 2012. He purchased his condo on the 18th, as you can see below. He made 10K during that fundraiser. A nice little sum to pocket after having to put down a few grand on a mortgage, unless he bought it outright with all the other fundraiser donations he had been pocketing before this one.

A nice place to live eh?

I got all this info very easily on Google with Paul's full address that was leaked by Nocturnus Libertus on her blog last year. And no, I will not leak that info. If you want it, go find it. It's not that hard to do with Pauls name and city/state etc...

This is just all to show how these known and admitted shysters project their own personalities onto others - assuming everyone is out to get them because they are actually the ones out to get everyone themselves. A thief always suspects everyone of stealing their shit.

So, I hope this clears everything up. After 2 years of bullshit from AVFM and the MRAs I don't expect any actual apologies. I would probably faint if any of them did suck up their pride and admit they were just out to smear me with lies. But you now have all the proof you need here. Anyone claiming I committed any fraud or theft from here on in is just being willfully ignorant and a complete douchebag.

Oh, and we told you so!


As many people have wanted to see proof that the money was donated to CAFE, I finally have the screenshots from, which was the project we donated to CAFE for, in Murray Pearson's name. Justin Trottier, the founder of CAFE, did not want anything to do with the drama from AVFM or the ESC (who could blame him), so the only way he would accept the donation, was in Murray's name. You can see our conversation above regarding this.

This is where you can find the Founders List.

As you can see, Murray Pearson is listed as a founder for having made a donation of 5K to them. This was the ESC money, as was already stated.

I wish and CAFE much success. At least the money has gone to good use to help men, which is what it was intended for. It may not be a men's shelter, but after the ESC was harpooned by AVFM, I feel that the money that was intended for us to create a men's shelter has gone to a wonderful cause for helping men in need.

Written by Kristina Hansen
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Wednesday, 11 March 2015

The Reality of Alpha, Beta, and Omega Males

I have been hearing a lot about Alphas, Betas, Omegas, and other 'hierarchical speak' within the MRM and Manosphere lately, and much of it is absolutely ridiculous because none of these self-professed 'Alpha males' seem to have any clue as to what it, or the other terms they use, mean.

These self-professed 'alphas' (SPAs) like to 'insult' other men that they see as inferior to them by calling them betas or omegas, - the more commonly used insult is that of beta. The use of the term beta by SPAs is being misused, as a beta male, in Dominance Hierarchy is the male that is second in rank to the alpha and is the one poised to "act as the new alpha if an alpha dies or is otherwise no longer considered an alpha - If the old alpha is removed or dies, he takes over the alpha's females, becoming the new alpha."

An omega is, in Dominance Hierarchy, "subordinate to all others in the community, and are expected by others in the group to remain submissive to everyone. Omega animals may also be used as communal scapegoats or outlets for frustration, or given the lowest priority when distributing food."

It would therefore be more apt to call another male an omega if they wanted to insult them, if one is indeed even insulted by such a term, since it is all just ill-informed opinion and posturing on the part of those men that feel the need to apply these hierarchical terms to themselves, and others, in an attempt to make themselves feel better.

The fact of the matter is that true alpha males do not need to tell others that they are alphas, as this quote from an article titled Alpha Male & Beta Male Traits demonstrates:

"[An] alpha male never feels like he must prove himself. His ego is his ally - Big egos are a result of low-esteem, lack of control over emotion, and too many female feelings. A man who is truly confident in himself never needs to lash out at someone who insulted his ego."

It is true that for chimps, and other primates/mammals that others "show deference to the alpha of the community by ritualized gestures such as bowing, allowing the alpha to walk first in a procession, or standing aside when the alpha challenges." This is because the other chimps know he is the alpha male by the way he carries himself in daily activities. The alpha male chimp does not need to constantly prove himself to the troop, nor would it be beneficial to him if he did, since he would expend too many physical resources in the process, and thus his overall health and longevity would suffer. His position as alpha male would soon be overtaken by another male who had more physical resources to expend.

The whole advantage of being an alpha male is to have access to resources. Those resources are driven by the desire for survival and evolution where the most important factor is "preferential access to sex or mates." Being able to reproduce and have their genes move forward into the next generation is the most important aspect of being an alpha male.

So, for those men that claim to be alphas but refuse to have any children are, in biological and evolutionary terms, a failure and therefore not truly alpha males. Just because you say you are an alpha male does not make it true. Many traits make up an alpha male, but the most important ones are that the alpha male is both biologically and evolutionarily driven to reproduce with the best females possible. We are not special just because we are of the human species. We are still animals with the same basic biological and evolutionary needs and drives - to deny that fact is willfully ignorant and ill-informed to say the least.

So when you hear a man say he is an alpha male, or use terms like beta male to attempt and insult someone, you can be sure he is not truly an alpha male. He is most likely one of the omegas trying desperately to escape being on the lowest rung of the hierarchical ladder with little to no real success.

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Written by Kristina Hansen
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Tuesday, 10 March 2015

Davis Aurini Deletes the Skype Logs, but I Have Them Here.

 So it would seem the latest Davis Aurini 'dramz' is him deleting his 8000+ word post from his blog, which consisted mainly of the private Skype chat logs between Davis and Jordan that led up to their split a week ago.

Clicking on the link to his original blog post gives you the following:

It would seem that what he thought was 'damning evidence' against Jordan Owen became more like damning evidence against him for being such a colossal douchnozzle. Not only did he release private chats between himself and Jordan, which I find very scummy to do after professing a day or two before that he wouldn't, but he also released them with the sole purpose to smear and gaslight  Jordan. 

The lovely schadenfreude of it all is that those logs only served to make Davis look pretty horrible - at least to the unbiased and sane reader. I cannot fathom how Davis thought releasing any of that would make him look good. Well, then again, that would imply that he had been thinking in even some minor sense of the word, which he has a proven track record of having major problems with.

The awesome thing about the internet is that it doesn't forget, and even though Davis may have deleted the original 'article' from his website, it is still floating around in there. 

So for anyone interested, you can find the original cached article that Davis has deleted HERE, or you can go HERE / HERE for a text file copy.

Friday, 6 March 2015

The Jordan Owen and Davis Aurini Fairytale Romance is Over

I know, I'm a little late to the party, but I just had to write a post about the latest lover's quarrel between Jordan Owen (AKA 'Bathtub Boy') and Davis Aurini (AKA 'Skull Boy').

It seems their 'documentary' about Anita Sarkeesian and #GamerGate has fallen to the wayside, as the once fairytale romance between Bathtub Boy and Skull Boy turns into a large pile of smoldering monkey shit that they are now excitedly flinging at each other. (Here and here).

The reason for the break-up? Davis has declared his undying love for Roosh (a slimy creature from the depths of the PUA cesspool who advocates rape be legal) and Jordan has decided to set Davis free to be with his true love, Roosh, so they can run away together, hand-in-hand. 'If you love something set it free' - Fly Davis... Fly.

As the lovers part ways in less than amicable fashion, one must ask some serious questions - who gets custody of Davis' skull? Will he have to share his only suit and turtleneck with Jordan every second weekend? Will Jordan have to split his belt collection 50/50? Will he get to keep vlogging from his bathtub?

Indeed these are pressing questions that the public deserves to know since they, Davis and Jordan, are obviously incapable of handling this in a professional or mature way. Sadly, the innocent skull is the one stuck in the middle of it all, while childish insults are being hurled from both sides. Can't they put their petty bullshit aside for a moment and think of how that poor skull feels?

There is no way to be serious about this. Aurini and Owen are just absolutely ridiculous in more ways than I can count. Their attempts to come across as even mildly professional in any of their videos or blogs are pure comedy gold for anyone with an IQ over 50.

Davis' constant  pathetic attempts at being 'manly' while wearing daddy's suit and posing as some sort of caricature of Huggy Bear is utterly side-splitting. His delusions of being a 'ladies man' make him a complete laughing stock. He's the embarrassingly sad loser in the bar who thinks he has a hope in hell of getting a woman who isn't brain dead to even acknowledge that he exists. Jordan seems to have no clue what a razor or scissors are for. His desire to be a perpetual teenage metal head seems to have blinded him to the fact that he is no longer 14 and needs to start taking a little more pride in his appearance. He also does not seem to understand that no one wants to see his hairy chest, back hair, or his under-toned and pasty white skin soaking in a bathtub while vlogging. Unless he is willing to provide his viewers with a lifetime supply of eye bleach and compensation for visually assaulting anyone watching those videos, I would seriously suggest that he never do any videos in any state of undress again... EVER.

Anyone who thought that giving them any money for their 'documentary' was somehow a good idea needs to have their head examined. To think that these two could ever produce anything even mildly coherent or professional after seeing any of their previous videos is laughable, yet somehow some people thought that they'd invest their money on a feminist bashing video that is promising to be the intellectual equivalent of a Beavis and Butthead movie, was for some reason, a good idea. And isn't that what this is really all about?

The only reason these two douchenozzles got any support for their so-called 'documentary' was because some people hate Anita Sarkeesian and feminism so much that it blinded them to the clear fact that these two clowns were completely incapable of making any type of film, let alone a full-length professional documentary. All one has to do is see Davis' latest attempt at some sort of film school drop-out neo-noir short that would make any serious film-maker's ears bleed and eyes vomit. The acting and dialogue are worse than an amateur porn flick, and the martial arts scenes would make Bruce Lee turn over in his grave and cry. If this is the type of 'professional' film quality one can expect, then the documentary should be the most epic piece of festering horse shit the world has yet to see.

So now these scorned lovers are planning on assaulting the public with two pieces of their cinematic genius instead of one. Both are asking for support (and to be believed), and their fans are wandering about dazed and confused as to who to support, and who is the better douchenozzle. The drama here is so thick that Drama Llama may have suffocated and died on it.

It's a wonderful tale of the blind leading the stupid with a healthy portion of schadenfreude mixed in. Disney really needs to swoop in and get the rights to this story. It will make for one of the the best romantic comedic tragedy films of the century. I laughed, I cried, I threw-up a little in my mouth.

Written by Kristina Hansen
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